Showing posts with label raising kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label raising kids. Show all posts

Friday, June 28, 2013

The Summer Guilt Trip

Every summer I take a trip, but it's not a vacation or a fun destination--it's a guilt trip, mom-style.

Sophie, our mini-wiener dog!

Within one week of school letting out, the following thoughts pummel me until the kids head back in the fall.

* They're watching too much television.
* Do hours of playing Minecraft prepare a kid for a career designing video games?
* Is my teen a recluse? Why so much time in the bedroom?
* When--when??--will either of them crack open a book?
* A summer with no math? Disastrous.
* My figure-out-lunch-for-yourselves policy can't be healthy.
* If we drive to a city pool for the day, how will I finish my revisions?
* One pair of shorts should get each kid through the summer, right? *Gulp* I need to take them shopping.
* Since when did a package of stickers and markers cease to be exciting?
* Is going to the zoo really a "rerun" as one of my kids told me?
* How many text messages is too many? Again, the teen...

I've been working long hours to finish revising my current book. After that I'll be taking time off to brainstorm plots and study a few writing craft books. We'll have the leisure to explore the area more, to spend time at the beach or a local pool, to go to a discount movie. But even then, the mom-guilt-trip-of-summer will continue. It's in my blood!

Do you ever feel guilty about how you spend your time?

Have a terrific Friday!